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Happy 3 Year Anniversary//Open Letter to my Husband

Happy Anniversary!


Today marks three years of marriage. As I sit here I reflect with tears of gratitude for all the years and blessings God has given us. I’m so incredibly thankful for you, and all you do for our family. You are an amazing provider, father, son and Husband. I’m so proud to call you my husband, and best friend. It’s such an honor to do life with you!


I’m so proud of the Godly man you have become. You’re an amazing role model for our family and our pillar of strength. I’m so blessed to walk with you side by side on this beautiful journey. I share openly that marriage is not always easy. It can be hard work and our first year tested us. We went through lows and highs together. From adjusting to a blended family to long work hours, to suffering from our first miscarriage to the ultimate joy of a beating heart. Oh, God is so good! We experienced Gods grace and goodness together. In our second year, you helped me bring our baby girl into this world. And I couldn’t be more proud of how you helped coach me through labor, even when I wanted to give up, and said I’d cut you! (Guys, I don’t remember this at all! And I would never lol) 

We learned to adjust to our new normal – life with a newborn. It wasn’t always easy. We had good days, bad days, and days we didn’t sleep. You’ve always been by my side lifting me up when I was down. Encouraging me through it all! We’ve become stronger together because of everything we’ve gone through. I want to tell you that I love you and thank you for all that you do.

I truly believe that we all find our own joy. We cannot give it to each other. We are responsible for our own happiness. We choose happiness and choose to share it with each other. I’m so honored that you chose me to share your journey with and walk together. I can’t wait for all the memories we will make with our little family. Now that we are more settled with Chloe Grace, maybe we will do it again. 😉

The day I said I do I vowed to love and honor these two and give them my heart! I love this little family so much! And the perfect little miracle that came on 9-5-16.I am so lucky to call myself mom to these three blessings!

Happy Anniversary babe! May God bless our marriage always.
This Joyful Life

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  1. Vanessa this was beautiful. I hope and pray one day to have what you both have.
    Thank You for sharing and giving all single ladies hope if finding our own Godly man.

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